I don't get it. Why is merideth displayed as the most downing and depressing person with no actual issue on her background (okay her mother worked alot and her parents were divorced, how many of you with that background is suicidal, emo, depressing and self loathing?)
She has a good job (we all know how well docs are paid for)
she has a fairy tale prince (who stuck around for her and pushed hard to be with her even when she tried to suicide, be unstable, unreasonable, keep him awake the night before surgery and getting kicked out of bed early in the morning cause Christina came along wth coffee, while he x-wife, all she did was cheat on him (i know it isn't minor but it isn't a mindf*ck like merideth's case), told her he wants to marry her when she is ready and build a house for her)
She was the one who was shouting at him "pick me, love me, choose me" when he had to decide between her and his x-wife, but the character is written to try and deprave herself of a wedding day? And considering her wedding day "just another day at work" ? I would understand the conception of "as long as i'm marrying the guy i love i don't care how and when and where" but the conception of "marriage is meaningless"? that's beyond me.
Are the writters stupid? can't they see how messed up that is?